Is Solitude where you meet yourself?

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Asslam o Alaikum,  My honourable Sir,  As scholars advise, " Solitude is where you meet yourself"  But whenever I sit to reflect on my own presence, rather than meeting myself, I feel I lose myself. Everything around me including myself becomes question mark and 'I' itself feels strange. I feel void.  Sir, what's that...? Am I missing something in what scholars meant or is this beyond my understanding?  I believe your understanding more than my confusion 😊 Reply to the question: Wa Alaikum Assalam What you’re describing actually makes a lot of mixed sense—and it’s more common (and more meaningful) than it feels in the moment. When scholars say “Solitude is where you meet yourself,” they’re not talking about an immediate, peaceful, clear “meeting.” That line is often quoted in the spirit of thinkers like Rumi or Al-Ghazali—but the first stage of solitude is usually not clarity. it shows confusion. What you’re experiencing—the feeling of: losing yourself, everyth...

If I tell girls that I'm poor, would they immediately reject me?-Question of the Day

If I tell girls that I'm poor, would they immediately reject me?
Answer:
Yes, certainly they will leave you because hunger, sex and power of wealth matter a lot in the world of materialistic approaches in dear relationships. This modern era is full of material approaches. Everyone needs power and pelf to fulfil their dreams. They don't bother their blood relations. All the relations have some perennial bonds of agreement between one person to another. It depends on some very concrete facts i.e. Every action has some particular reactions. There are two components of these relationships i.e. male and female. These two characters exist in a society. They are essential components to fulfilling other's life. If one is hungry one cannot think of anything else except to satisfy him.  
Sex comes second. Aesthetic beauty, love and romance stand the second one. 
Look at the dark side of the world which is a world of glittering neons and billboards. All the wealth of the world is in the hand of superpowers of the world. However, there exists a natural balance between males and females which keeps up a real balance between haves and have-nots. These relations needs some material identities with may strengthen their relations. 
Do you agree?
You may agree or not, but this real cycle will keep on. Nothing exists without any action or reaction. Everyone needs something to satisfy oneself. These relations are based on some of the agreements. Thus finance does matter a lot in our life, it can fulfil our cherished dreams. However, wealth cannot provide us everything. It can help out to make our dreams to be realized. Our struggles would help our dreams to come true. It also needs hard work and perseverance which is a key to success. 
Strong relationships need mutual benefits and mutual benefits lead us to infer a logical conclusion.  
Never try to mix up your priorities with money and success. Success is something else while money is something else. Both have importance in your life, but you have to make money with the help of fair means, not by unfair means. Money that is achieved with the help of unfair means leads you towards ruins and destruction. This may damage your satisfaction or your conscience, and you will not judge between right and wrong consequently. Thus the people who live a life of contentment and satisfaction must keep in mind that money is not everything in life. However, it does matter a lot in life. 

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