Is Solitude where you meet yourself?

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Asslam o Alaikum,  My honourable Sir,  As scholars advise, " Solitude is where you meet yourself"  But whenever I sit to reflect on my own presence, rather than meeting myself, I feel I lose myself. Everything around me including myself becomes question mark and 'I' itself feels strange. I feel void.  Sir, what's that...? Am I missing something in what scholars meant or is this beyond my understanding?  I believe your understanding more than my confusion 😊 Reply to the question: Wa Alaikum Assalam What you’re describing actually makes a lot of mixed sense—and it’s more common (and more meaningful) than it feels in the moment. When scholars say “Solitude is where you meet yourself,” they’re not talking about an immediate, peaceful, clear “meeting.” That line is often quoted in the spirit of thinkers like Rumi or Al-Ghazali—but the first stage of solitude is usually not clarity. it shows confusion. What you’re experiencing—the feeling of: losing yourself, everyth...
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How to improve your self-confidence in life?

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Improving self-confidence overnight is impossible. Being willing to improve your leads you to achieve a confidence level.  It is a journey that requires consistent effort and a willingness to challenge yourself. An untiring effort. Here are some tips that may help:

Identify your strengths and weaknesses: Understanding your abilities and areas where you need improvement can help you focus on building your confidence. You will get pleasure and relaxation. Feel and apply your strength confidently. 

Set achievable goals: 

Setting small, achievable goals and accomplishing them can help boost your self-confidence. Celebrate your victories, no matter how small they may seem.

Practice self-care: 

Take care of your physical and mental health. This can include exercising, eating a balanced diet, getting enough sleep, and engaging in activities that bring you joy.

Use positive self-talk:

Replace negative thoughts with positive affirmations. Think and talk positively. Practice saying kind things to yourself, such as "I am capable" or "I am worthy."

Face your fears: 

Pushing yourself out of your comfort zone can help build confidence. Try something new, even if it's scary. Don't feel shy to do adventures. Practical involvement will help you to develop your confidence.

Surround yourself with positive people:

Spend time with people who uplift and support you. Avoid those who bring you down or make you doubt yourself. Your company with a positive mindset will help you improve your confidence.

Remember, building self-confidence takes time and effort, but it is achievable with consistent practice and patience. Never think about your weaknesses. Just try to buil up your strong attitude step by step.

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  1. NarjisMarch 29, 2023 at 1:45 PM

    Awesome!
    I'm very happy to know that I follow all these points that the writer has mentioned above..
    I want to say that one thing that has made me articulate is the frequent questioning of my teachers. They have helped me build up my morale.
    🤗👌👏💐🏵️🎊🌹🌺🌈🥇

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  2. Zainab ShehzadiMay 14, 2023 at 4:54 PM

    It is really a master piece 🧩.
    Thanks ☺️ sir

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